“Why I Chose to Hide My Pain — Not Heal It.”✨ A story behind silent strength.



“Not all pain wants to be healed. Some just want to be heard — even if it’s through silence.”
Welcome to theloveejournal — where love, loss, and raw feelings find their voice. This post isn’t a guide or solution. It’s a confession for those who’ve ever felt like they’re surviving quietly. 
There comes a time when you're done explaining your pain to people who only remember what they did for you — not how deeply it hurt.


"Ab Dard Ko Gumnam Rehne Do"

Ab bura nahi lagta kisi baat ka,
Jo kabhi bar jaaye, aankhon mein aansu ban kar.
Ab pighalna bhi aasaan hai,
Aur muskurana — ek aadat si ho gayi hai.

Kyuki dard... dard dekh liya maine,
Jitna zarurat tha, utna jee liya maine.
Log toh sambhalte bhi hain,
Par har baar hisaab bhi lete hain.

Toh kyun na dard ko gumnam hi rehne diya jaaye,
Ek chhupi si kahani ban jaaye...
Jise na koi padhe, na samjhe,
Bas khud se chhupa kar, khud mein jiya jaaye.


 So, you’ve ever chosen silence over explanation, peace over pity — then maybe, just maybe, you’ll understand why I let my pain stay unnamed. 
     
                                                                     YOUR,                                                                     Tupil
      


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